Love, Mom
My youngest daughter struggled through her third and fourth year, with fits of anger and frustration. It was so hard to feel helpless and unable to make a change for her. Once we figured out a diet change, life significantly improved for her. I know a journal wasn’t going to help in those young years, and since then I didn’t feel a need or a pull to give her a journal as early as I did to my first daughter.
Now my Sweet Pea is in junior high, and she’s growing up into a beautiful, unique young lady. She doesn’t struggle much since those few years so long ago, praise the Lord. We have avoided a good deal of tween angst with her. Sure, I can still see when she’s about to reach her “fuming” level of anger, and her “I’m getting upset and aggravated” stare is fierce. But she’s mellow, content with who she is, and thus far not sending my mama-bear instincts into active mode.
It just a few weeks ago when I gifted her our first journal to write together. Even though she hasn’t written back, I know this is going to be a special place to share hopes and fears, joys and frustrations as she grows into a young woman. It may be that for some time, only my words cover the pages, to assure of her my love, to encourage her before a game or school event, to leave a small prayer tucked inside.
Journaling with my girls is a game-changer. It’s been a life-changer.
I wanted to share our experience with you, and give you some ideas to start your own journal. My newest project, “Love, Mom” is packed with why I started, what it’s meant to us, and more. It includes print-your-own pages, too. You can make stickers, you can print mini encouragement cards to tuck into a journal or lunchbox. I hope you’ll be inspired to start this beautiful tradition with your daughters.
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